That Filter Coffee #Everyconversationmatters
Alakendu
Alakendu was sitting on the cane chair, reading his favourite Geetanjali. The more he read the book, the more he rediscovered himself and the world with a new perspective each time. But one thing, he knew, would never change, and that was the self-pride he carried along as a Bengali. And that led to his detachment from his son, Anirban. He was the one who broke the house's tradition. First of all, he did not join their generational publishing business, which Alakendu had been managing to maintain the legacy, even in this era of online books and tutorials. But Anirban had other plans, and with some friends, he had set up a Start-up. And then the most striking blow- he married Vijaya, a non-Bengali, knowing nothing about the Bengali culture.
Now that he had been sitting here for almost an hour, waiting for his evening tea, there was no sign of Vijaya. If Madhuri had been there today, she would have surely got a cup of flavourful Darjeeling tea and some Phuluri (gram flour fritters). Instead, every evening Vijaya would offer him filter coffee and Idli, knowing perfectly well that his answer would always be negative. Ultimately, she would serve him tea with some Diet Puffed Rice or Beaten Rice and cucumber slices. Who would like to eat such rubbish? – Filter coffee-huh! Rubbish, it was just an excuse for her inability to make the perfect tea. Yes, of course, he had diabetes, but at least once in a while, he deserved to be served the food of his choice. But who would make that girl understand all these? Instead of Luchi and Sada Alur Torkari (White flour Puris and white potato sabji), breakfast would be either Dosa or Upma. Sometimes he would skip breakfast, without revealing that he already had a few Kachoris with Dum aloo at Gupta's before returning from his morning walk. And if his appetite permitted, a couple of Darbesh or Pantua (Bengali Sweets), who would know? That girl? He sometimes failed to understand what Anirban had seen in that girl that would not be there in a Bengali girl.
Vijaya
Vijaya was sure her father-in-law had eaten from outside today as well. Bhola, their house-help, had informed her, and this was the third time in the week. She was worried that his blood sugar level could rise at any time. Since she could not control what he ate outside, she had to be strict at home. She knew that Diet Chiwda and Murmura would not be the tastiest snacking options, but she could not risk his health, despite realising how much he disliked her. She would rather be disliked by someone than risk his health. Here he was back from a walk, but why was he panting so much? Vijaya ran to Alakendu, who was sweating profusely. She helped him sit on the couch and gently wiped his face with a cold towel. After a glass of water, when he was feeling better, Vijaya dared to ask him, "Appa, you had sweets now, didn't you?" Alakendu was not able to lie, "Yes, a couple of them and Kachori." He smiled like a little kid who had just been caught lying.
"From now onwards, I will decide what you eat, and no food from outside. Now, over a cup of tea, we would both decide on a proper diet plan for you." She rushed to the kitchen. On one burner, she put the pot of coffee for herself, and on the other, the water for his tea. The rich aroma of coffee was difficult to ignore. Its nuttiness, a little bit of bitterness -ah, how could anyone refuse this flavour? A sudden sound interrupted her thoughts. She looked back to find Alakendu standing. "Well, Vijaya, Ma, I was thinking if I can try that filter coffee today." His nervous curiosity could not escape her eyes. Willingly and excitedly, Vijaya responded, "Yes, Appa." She took out another coffee glass and placed it next to hers, for him, for the first time.
This story has been written for Penmancy's Quintale 85 prompt "Smell The Coffee"
This post is a part of #famjambloghop hosted by Manali Desai and Sukaina Majeed under #EveryConversationMatters blog hop series

That's eggshells you are treading on! A relationship with one's in-laws is delicate, add to it a difference in culture, matters become trickier. Through this sweet and short story you have illustrated that hearts can be reached out to and love will flourish, given time and attention.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your kind words
DeleteUff this is such a common theme in many households. Each person misunderstanding the other's intentions. One small gesture can bridge the gap yet no one wants to take that first step.
ReplyDeleteTrue that. Thanks for reading
DeleteThis is so prevalent today. Feelings of affection, care, intention, and love are often quietly hidden within actions — if only we pay close attention. Your story explored this aspect so beautifully!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Pinkii
DeleteAww, such a warmhearted story. I can imagine the adjustment pangs of the Bengali FIL and South Indian DIL. My heart spared when she didn't give up on him, and he finally gave in to her caring and loving nature.
ReplyDeleteIt takes time, and we can always try
DeleteYes, relationships can be tricky! However, you have created such a sweet story that proves that affection and tough love can sort out issues which need to be ironed out. I loved your story!
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DeleteOh tricky relationships should be handled. Good for Vijaya for standing her ground, and am glad she was able to make Alakendu understand her POV.
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading
DeleteCould relate to it on so many levels! Relationships with in laws are crucial. Mine started swiftly but is now put on test.
ReplyDeleteThe story of every household. Thanks for reading
DeleteSuch a warm story. Actions are louder than words but only if one is willing to see it.
ReplyDeleteTrue that
DeleteSuch a heart-warming tale. A little kindness to the family and spouse of your loved ones is all that you need. When will people understand that ?
ReplyDeleteIt takes time, I feel. And if they don't, the spouse has to take matters into their own hands.
DeleteThis brought a smile to my face. It's amazing how something as simple as a cup of filter coffee can become the backdrop for meaningful conversations and lasting memories. Really enjoyed this one.
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading
DeleteThis was so beautiful. Yes, it takes time for some people to warm up to a new family member but when they do, it's beginning of a beautiful relationship.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment
DeleteThe perils of love marriage. But I'm glad that in the end all's well because there is love and care from both sides.
ReplyDeleteIt takes time, I guess
DeleteWith your post you’ve reminded us that the real magic is in the moments and conversations we share over it! 😄
ReplyDeleteYes, small communications matter
DeleteFinally he accepts coffee. Finally the ice breaks. Nice one, Reubenna :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading, Manali
Deletereally food does bring people together. beautiful story.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Sukaina
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