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In My Own Company #blogchatterbloghop

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Age and experience change us. I was an introvert but not a recluse. When I came in company of people, I had the habit of slowly but steadily getting friendly to them and stuck with those few. There was a phase in my life where I used to be comfortable around everyone. And that had hit me with a blow, a very strong one, that I am still struggling to get over. They became way more comfortable, broke boundaries and started sharing their emotional pain, hatred, distress and all bad experiences. At first I used to respond, empathize, tried to lend my hand, but gradually, it became overwhelming, and I was left numb. I felt for everyone's pain, struggles, and under that absolutely overlooked the burden of emotional baggage I had started to carry. The worst feeling was getting trapped in between situations where two parties were against each other, and I was unable to take sides, as both were dear to me. I was someone with zero complaints , happy with whatever I got. The very people whom I...
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Top 4 Bengali Comic Characters of Narayan Debnath

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The earliest comic strip in Bengal was dated back in 1921, by Sukhalata Rao, Satyajit Ray's aunt. Her work, " Jemon Kormo Temon Phol" was published in a magazine. Sukumar Ray's comic like strips were very popular too. In the later years, a name that started getting associated with Bengali comic was of Narayan Debnath.  Narayan Debnath, whose comics have provided laughter through generations, have ceeated some immemorable funny characters that had been an integral part of our childhood years. Here are the top 5 Characters that have stayed with us. 1. Nonte-Fonte : A boarding school and two very naughty inmates, Nonte and Fonte who has to carry out their mischiefs stealthily under the strict supervision of the Superintendent and another senior inmate Keltuda. The hide and seek games, the chasing sequences, the sweet revenges almost remind us of Tom & Jerry. Keltuda is a unique character, a devil mind with pleasing attitude to get favours- a typical good for nothing ...
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5 Actors We Miss Watching on Screen

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Does it ever happen to you that you are watching a film, and there is a particular character that reminds you of a similar character you had watched in another film long back?  Or perhaps, you feel that actor might have done it differently if the role was played by him. It happens to me quite often and so today I have enlisted 5 actors I miss watching these days. There have been controversies around their personal lives, but let's not forget the immense talent they possess by which they had entertained us for so long. Top 5 Actors We Miss Watching on Screen 1. Kevin Spacey : An actor who doesn't have to do much to steal the limelight, for sure. An Academy Award winner, for his outstanding role in American Beauty, the actor has shown us glimpses of his talent in movies like The Usual Suspects, Seven etc. We genuinely miss his onscreen presence. 2. Cameron Diaz : A little birdie told us she is happy with her life, away from glitz and glam. But we surely miss her on screen glam. S...
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Tour-Detour #BlogchatterBlogHop

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  Journal Date: 25/05/25 The DeTour  This isn't what I planned for today. I had chalked out ideas in my mind to write something else, but the sudden knock at the door slightly distracted me. The pitter-patter of raindrops played a soothing rhythm, a melody very close to my heart. Every time it reminds me of your voice when you recited your poems. Your voice – going up and down in a rhythm, the most cherished music I have ever heard, that created ripples in my steel-cold heart. Every time you looked at me, my heart felt like indulging in a duet with your spoken words.  The postman came to deliver a letter. A letter that I had been expecting for a long time, once upon a time, but then I erased it from my memory. Was it important? Yes, but when you wait for something for so long, your wait turns to despair at first, and then you slowly adjust to that state of waiting, and you no longer feel the urge to wait around. And the wait gradually gets removed from your mind. I wish I...
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No Regrets, No Grudges

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Reading multiple books at a time, researching like crazy, to acquire knowledge, finding issues with certain social setups that others around find "normal"- I should have known it from the beginning that I should be a writer. Now I feel sometimes that I have wasted 40 years of my life trying to prove my worth, doing things that hardly mattered to me or anyone else. I could have dedicated that very time to writing. However, I am an overthinker (every writer is), and reanalysing my own thoughts again and again (just like falling in love with myself) has led me to a very eye-opening conclusion. That is, nothing in life is wasted. So finally I can say I hold no regrets, I hold absolutely no grudges. All my emotions I pour into my writing, through words, through the characters- good, bad, ugly.  My health is at its highest   low  as of now. Oh, I am very much aware of the atrocious grammatical mistake committed in my last sentence. That was deliberate. Life is full of mistakes....
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Top 3 Bengali Classic Movies Way Ahead of Their Time

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I have discussed many old Bengali classic movies on this blog, which have dealt with offbeat topics. These films delve into ordinary people's lives and tell their extraordinary stories through their everyday struggles and successes, or failures in overcoming them. 1. Uttar Phalguni: Suchitra Sen was the most sought-after and respected actress of Bengali films, and one of the rare few who could even say no to Satyajit Ray's movie offer, just because the role did not align with her choice. Uttar Phalguni is one of her best performances, that of an ill-fated woman who is sold by her husband to a life as a courtesan, yet keeps her daughter away from her dingy, dirty world to make her grow up to be an accomplished woman. Suchita Sen played both the mother and the daughter. Her range of acting can be easily distinguished by the portrayal of the double role with very different characteristics- one of a tormented courtesan, accused of killing her abusive husband, and another that of...
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Top 3 Women Characters from Bengali Literature #MothersDay

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A mother is someone who nurtures and cares when you need it; a mother is someone who scolds and is strict when you are weak; a mother is someone who stands tall and rigid when everyone else leaves.  If we get someone like this in our lives, she is our mother, guardian, and guide. Today, on Mother's Day, I am exploring a few powerful female characters from Bengali literature who have become iconic as role models of motherhood and womanhood. Not every character on my list is a mother, but their care and strength have been considered those of a strong woman with power and care. 1. Devi Choudhurani/Prafulla from Devi Choudhurani: This is one of the most powerful characters in Bengali literature. A young girl, abandoned by her husband and in-laws, is kidnapped by robbers and rescued by another group of bandits, led by Bhavani Thakur. She joins the bandits and later rises to become their able leader in fighting the British cruelty.  A simple village girl, who is considered a carrie...
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