Self-Reflection and Realization

Every year, before the onset of Durga Puja, readers of Bengali literature receive some precious gifts in the form of the Sharadiya Pujabarshiki (Yearly Literary Magazine). For the past 70 years or so, we have seen some outstanding works from the Creme' of Bengali literature like Samaresh Basu, Sunil Ganguly, Shirshendu Mukherjee, Ashapurna Devi and many others being published in these magazines for the first time. This trend continues; this year, too, my husband gifted me a few such magazines before Durga Puja. Kishore Bharati is one of the magazines I got and today I picked a story called "Vaijayantimala" from that. for November's #TBRChallenge.


About the Author:

The author Bhaswar Chatterjee is a popular Film and Television actor who works predominantly in the Bengali Film Industry. He started his career as an actor in 1998 from television serials and later worked in Rajkumar Santoshi's The Legend of Bhagat Singh. In his elaborate career, spanning almost 30 years, he has given noteworthy performances on big and small screens. He has a few books to his credit, the most popular being Onno Upottoka

Story Synopsis:

The story begins with details of a reputed school where a new student gets admission. The boy who has moved from a different state is shy and has difficulty adapting to the new school's ways, including struggling with Maths, due to the transfer of Boards. Above all, he has a very unique and offbeat name—Vaijayant. Due to so many odd things about him, he becomes the subject of severe bullying and harassment, both by his classmates and teachers, led by the Maths teacher, Vijay Sir. He is mocked for his name by them too.  Vaijayant tries his best to adapt to the school's ways and norms. He does everything to be accepted by his classmates and teachers. But nothing seems to work in his favour. To cope with Maths, he tries to get into Vijay Sir's private tuition but gets meanly harassed by him, instead, in front of everyone. When nothing works he tries to make a place for himself by singing in the Annual Day function of the school, with guitar. While singing 500 miles, in between he starts to sing in the song's Hindi version, "Jab Koi Baat Bigad Jaye". And that is it, the whole group of teachers starts objecting to singing a film song, especially Vijay Sir, who stops him in between, humiliating him brutally on stage. 

After many years, the now-retired Vijay Sir is relaxing while his grandson comes in from school, crying. When asked, he says, everyone including the teachers, makes fun of him because of his name, Hemil and mocks him by calling Hema Malini. Vijay Sir gets shocked and travels back on memory lane to an incident many years back when the last note found in the school bag lying on the railway tracks read - "Those who have made me cry will also end up crying one day."The school bag belonged to a boy who was mocked as Vaijayantimala.

The Self-Reflecting Factor

Often, we don't realize what damage we can do to another person while making fun of him. Especially growing up years are very sensitive, and if not handled properly, can lead to devastating results. Unless the same thing happens to us or our dear ones, this realization is not possible. Bullying is a social evil and can damage many lives, especially tender ones. In this story, until Vijay Sir's most precious person - his grandson was treated the same way, that he had once treated his student, Vaijayant, he was not able to realize his fault. 


"I'm participating in the #TBRChallenge by Blogchatter"

This blog post is part of ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’
hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla 
in collaboration with Dr. Preeti Chauhan.


Comments

  1. This comment has been removed by the author.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Nice post. We learn, at least most of us, from personal experience. Prior to experiencing pain and humiliation we are as cruel as it comes. But when the experience hits us on the face we cry like a baby. This post serves a very important message.

    On another front, the post takes me back to days when we would subscribe 'Sharadiya Edition' of books that contained many wonderful, entertaining and readable stories from luminaries of Bengali literature. Gradually, we lost touch. Some of the writings I read in passing but did not enjoy. Either I had changed or the quality has gone down.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Of late I have been reading a few of these magazines. The latest trend in stories and novels is focused more on historical or mythological topics. Thanks for reading.

      Delete
  3. This is such a sad story. Bullies don't realise how deeply they can impact and ruin someone's life.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yes, unless the same hits back home!! Thanks for reading.

      Delete
  4. This really made me reflect on how deeply bullying can affect someone, even when we don't realize it. love how you highlighted the importance of empathy and the consequences of not understanding someone’s struggles. Such a thought-provoking read.
    - Anjali

    ReplyDelete
  5. Seems like an emotional book dealing with a very important life lesson. It's so sad that pain has to be experienced to be understood. Why can't we just take a step back and look at our behaviour with a critical eye and make appropriate changes? Thank you for introducing a thought-provoking book through your review.

    ReplyDelete
  6. This story hits hard. Bullying leaves scars that can last a lifetime. It's a powerful reminder to be kind and mindful of our words, especially with children. Such stories truly make us reflect.

    ReplyDelete
  7. True, we don't realize the repercussions of bullying or bad mouthing and how it can have a negatively lasting impact on the other person. Seems like a good read with a social message. Thanks for the recommendation

    ReplyDelete
  8. That's so sad. Though the teacher may have realised years later, a life gone is gone. As I was reading, I felt so sorry for the boy--he tried so hard but no one helped him. A nice story with a valuable lesson.

    ReplyDelete
  9. People who dont understand others' pain will have to eventually face their fate and they will realize the pain of hurting someone or laughing at them.

    ReplyDelete
  10. Suktara, Ananadamela, Desh all these magazines release the puja barshiki which used to be a dear gift for us from our parents. People are losing the value of these patrika's and that what is painful. One more thing I would like to add that Just because of you Reubena I got to know Bhaskar Chattopadhaya also writes ... I know him only for his acting skill but not acting. Thanks for letting me know

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. You are welcome, I still make it a point to get these magazines every year. My Durga Puja is incomplete without these.

      Delete
  11. These Sharadiya books are a coveted gift for my mom. As much as I would like to read Bengali literature, I am unable to do so. This post took me deep. The story that you have described needs some serious introspection.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Saradiya books have some very interesting work of fiction sometimes.

      Delete
  12. Such a sad tale. How I wish everyone gets due justice immediately. Lesser crime will prevail

    ReplyDelete
  13. This story really made me reflect on how deeply words and actions can hurt someone, especially during their formative years. It's a poignant reminder that bullying can leave lifelong scars, often unnoticed until it's too late. Very thought-provoking!

    ReplyDelete
  14. It's really heartbreaking to say the least. But thank you for sharing this bookw ith us,

    ReplyDelete
  15. Omg. Bullying is so bad. Especially when teachers who should be stopping this, in turn bullying the kid is gruesome

    ReplyDelete
  16. I guess a parent like me who's about to move with her family to a different side of the world won't want to read stories like this..anyways, it's the sad reality but with it are lots of learnings and understanding how to cope. - Jeannine

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Top 5 Films Based on Communal/Civil Wars and Internal Feuds

Mushy Mushrooms, Mini Macaroons & 5 Whodunnit Murder Mysteries to Watch on My Breakfast Plate

5 Dumb Movies that are Secretly Clever